The Big Relationship Question – What Is Their Attraction

But I know how you feel, I bend over backwards to make the women I am with happy, and I actively try to be nice (i say try because sometimes I can be a jerk), and you know, most of them still left me for guys that will treat them like dirt, some even went through 5-6 abusive relationships after leaving me. It is very irritating, women should be cherished, they balance us guys out a lot of times.

I can really identify with some of what you are saying. Especially ‘There is nothing more irritating and devastating than seeing the woman you like walk away with a man that is a (word that rhymes with Lick, and begins with a D).’

This always gets me, and I have discussed it with my buddies, and even tried to get sense of it from chicks – why are so many women attracted to the ‘treat ‘em mean, keep ‘em keen dudes’? Why do some total a**holes end up with with really nice girls, and treat them like dirt? That even leave, and go back for more? It is like the whole ‘ nice guys come last’ thing. I don’t know, damned if you do, called a wuss and miss out if you don’t.