There are heaps of men that are spendthrifts too. I have two sisters. One spends every cent on new clothes and beauty, like your wife obviously does, but the other works and supports her lazy, spendthrift husband!

Unfortunately there are many wasteful people in relationships and they do not see they are causing a problem. I have heard of Dr Phil, who hasn’t, but my husband and I don’t own a TV…for a start, they are time wasters, plus they are a waste of money!

I may be a female blogger, but I am very open-minded, to all relationships…which is why I say ‘spouse’ not wife. You sound like my sister’s husband, who works hard abroad and loves his kids and would do anything for them. This is why it is so important, if you want to be with your kids on a permanent basis and not a part-time father, that you address the problem fast – and not by just telling her where to go.

I can understand your anger. You have every right to be.

I hate my wife for being so stupid. She wants to spend all the money i make on trips abroad; instead of saving it for a house. She would rather rent a piece of crap and sport a coach purse than have a place of her own. I am not alone. I have several friends going throe divorce because of this very reason. My kids and future are more important to me than Dr. Phills list of material things your wife needs to be happy. Fuk her.