Comments for http://happytogetherforever.com Thu, 11 Mar 2010 16:18:47 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 Comment on Sex Addiction - Does It Affect Your Relationship? by Jason http://happytogetherforever.com/2010/02/sex-addiction-does-it-affect-your-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-141 Jason Sat, 06 Mar 2010 20:24:57 +0000 http://happytogetherforever.com/?p=305#comment-141 Hey Mary, Women, men can never seem to understand them; it’s like a jigsaw puzzle that’s missing some pieces. Yet we try to put it together anyway.... http://happytogetherforever.com/2010/03/what-men-wish-women-knew-about-us/ Hey Mary,

Women, men can never seem to understand them; it’s like a jigsaw puzzle that’s missing some pieces. Yet we try to put it together anyway….

http://happytogetherforever.com/2010/03/what-men-wish-women-knew-about-us/

]]> Comment on Sex Addiction - Does It Affect Your Relationship? by Jason http://happytogetherforever.com/2010/02/sex-addiction-does-it-affect-your-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-136 Jason Fri, 05 Mar 2010 17:26:46 +0000 http://happytogetherforever.com/?p=305#comment-136 :) :)

]]> Comment on Sex Addiction - Does It Affect Your Relationship? by Mary http://happytogetherforever.com/2010/02/sex-addiction-does-it-affect-your-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-134 Mary Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:25:38 +0000 http://happytogetherforever.com/?p=305#comment-134 I couldn't have said it better! :) I couldn’t have said it better! :)

]]> Comment on Sex Addiction - Does It Affect Your Relationship? by Jason http://happytogetherforever.com/2010/02/sex-addiction-does-it-affect-your-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-133 Jason Fri, 05 Mar 2010 06:11:19 +0000 http://happytogetherforever.com/?p=305#comment-133 And it never should feel like work, or a chore, I feel that the "work" put into is an opportunity to make the other happier, to want to be w/ you. Even in doing the most mundane tasks possible together, it should be an enjoyable experience. I know when my partner is gone even for 5-8 hours, I begin to feel lonely, and I want to see her again. so really I guess it would be called "opportunistic tasks for your partner to be happy" or if anyone can come with a shorter one with same meaning, feel free. but no, it should never feel like work, it's all about contentment, happiness, and love for both you and your partner. And it never should feel like work, or a chore, I feel that the “work” put into is an opportunity to make the other happier, to want to be w/ you. Even in doing the most mundane tasks possible together, it should be an enjoyable experience. I know when my partner is gone even for 5-8 hours, I begin to feel lonely, and I want to see her again. so really I guess it would be called “opportunistic tasks for your partner to be happy” or if anyone can come with a shorter one with same meaning, feel free. but no, it should never feel like work, it’s all about contentment, happiness, and love for both you and your partner.

]]> Comment on Sex Addiction - Does It Affect Your Relationship? by Mary http://happytogetherforever.com/2010/02/sex-addiction-does-it-affect-your-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-132 Mary Fri, 05 Mar 2010 05:24:02 +0000 http://happytogetherforever.com/?p=305#comment-132 Yes Jason, you are right again. Its lovely when you can 'work' at your relationship together, yet it doesn't feel like work. To be able to live each day with your partner, with feelings of contentment and love, is a very nice place to be. Yes Jason, you are right again. Its lovely when you can ‘work’ at your relationship together, yet it doesn’t feel like work. To be able to live each day with your partner, with feelings of contentment and love, is a very nice place to be.

]]> Comment on Sex Addiction - Does It Affect Your Relationship? by Jason http://happytogetherforever.com/2010/02/sex-addiction-does-it-affect-your-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-131 Jason Fri, 05 Mar 2010 05:08:05 +0000 http://happytogetherforever.com/?p=305#comment-131 It's hard to maintain a relationship, it takes work on both sides, right Mary, *Assumes Mary shakes her head yes* If one person doesn't want to put forth the effort and match yours, or at least putting some effort in, I think they are missing out, especially when the person whose putting the effort in leaves, lucky for me, neither me nor my girl put in a bunch of effort to maintain our relationship, as long as we are together that's what matters to both of us. But when one doesn't show effort or tries to better themselves for their partner or even tries to make it work, I don't think they really love their partner. Then it's time to move on.... like Mary says. It’s hard to maintain a relationship, it takes work on both sides, right Mary, *Assumes Mary shakes her head yes* If one person doesn’t want to put forth the effort and match yours, or at least putting some effort in, I think they are missing out, especially when the person whose putting the effort in leaves, lucky for me, neither me nor my girl put in a bunch of effort to maintain our relationship, as long as we are together that’s what matters to both of us. But when one doesn’t show effort or tries to better themselves for their partner or even tries to make it work, I don’t think they really love their partner. Then it’s time to move on…. like Mary says.

]]> Comment on Sex Addiction - Does It Affect Your Relationship? by Mary http://happytogetherforever.com/2010/02/sex-addiction-does-it-affect-your-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-128 Mary Thu, 04 Mar 2010 06:29:43 +0000 http://happytogetherforever.com/?p=305#comment-128 Well Jason, you answered that very well, in my opinion too :) Trust is very important in a relationship. This is one area that causes friction in many relationships. I agree with Jason, if you cannot accept his ways and he is not prepared to change for you...move on. There are others who will respect you and your feelings. You may love him, but does he love you the way you want to be loved? Well Jason, you answered that very well, in my opinion too :)

Trust is very important in a relationship. This is one area that causes friction in many relationships. I agree with Jason, if you cannot accept his ways and he is not prepared to change for you…move on.

There are others who will respect you and your feelings.

You may love him, but does he love you the way you want to be loved?

]]> Comment on Sex Addiction - Does It Affect Your Relationship? by Jason http://happytogetherforever.com/2010/02/sex-addiction-does-it-affect-your-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-124 Jason Tue, 02 Mar 2010 18:51:17 +0000 http://happytogetherforever.com/?p=305#comment-124 Like Mary had said previously Crystal, there are some who are never satisfied. I personally am not in any position to tell you how one should live a life. Trust is a big factor in a relationship. In a position you are in, I asked my girl about it. She said the same thing I am about to say, but it's just our opinion. An ultimatum, give him a choice, either stop and regain that trust, or leave. again this is just OUR OPINION. I am not saying one should leap to that conclusion as a first line, try to work it out, if one is the more passive type, setting up strict parental computer controls with a password to block all those sites will work. He can no longer see those sites on the PC. It may start a fight at first, blocking "his sites". But stress is something the last thing a relationship needs if a partner is already stressed out, and feels as though the other is being neglectful, or unfaithful, ect. but before you do any thing I suggest, I'll wait to hear from Mary, she's been at this a lot longer than I have, and may have a better, more effective, and more positive approach to it. .......... the floor is yours Mary. Like Mary had said previously Crystal, there are some who are never satisfied. I personally am not in any position to tell you how one should live a life. Trust is a big factor in a relationship. In a position you are in, I asked my girl about it. She said the same thing I am about to say, but it’s just our opinion. An ultimatum, give him a choice, either stop and regain that trust, or leave. again this is just OUR OPINION. I am not saying one should leap to that conclusion as a first line, try to work it out, if one is the more passive type, setting up strict parental computer controls with a password to block all those sites will work. He can no longer see those sites on the PC. It may start a fight at first, blocking “his sites”. But stress is something the last thing a relationship needs if a partner is already stressed out, and feels as though the other is being neglectful, or unfaithful, ect. but before you do any thing I suggest, I’ll wait to hear from Mary, she’s been at this a lot longer than I have, and may have a better, more effective, and more positive approach to it. ………. the floor is yours Mary.

]]> Comment on Sex Addiction - Does It Affect Your Relationship? by Crystal http://happytogetherforever.com/2010/02/sex-addiction-does-it-affect-your-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-122 Crystal Mon, 01 Mar 2010 21:05:06 +0000 http://happytogetherforever.com/?p=305#comment-122 I try to give my boyfriend everything he wants but he is never happy. He still sneaks behind my back to watch! How can I trust him if I do the things you say Jason and he still does? I try to give my boyfriend everything he wants but he is never happy. He still sneaks behind my back to watch! How can I trust him if I do the things you say Jason and he still does?

]]> Comment on Sex Addiction - Does It Affect Your Relationship? by Jason http://happytogetherforever.com/2010/02/sex-addiction-does-it-affect-your-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-121 Jason Mon, 01 Mar 2010 20:16:37 +0000 http://happytogetherforever.com/?p=305#comment-121 and I concur I know a few like that. I am in a relationship, where the screen is off limits, and sometimes I don't get satisfied with kinky things. Maybe it's just my values, or the occasional slip into her and another pants but I have always disapproved of it when in a relationship. Unless a partner is willing and accepting of it I feel as though one is betraying a partner. There are many views and most no one has the same exact one, there are always exceptions, things that are approved and things that aren't. But I do agree that it does depend on how much one can tolerate. and I concur I know a few like that. I am in a relationship, where the screen is off limits, and sometimes I don’t get satisfied with kinky things. Maybe it’s just my values, or the occasional slip into her and another pants but I have always disapproved of it when in a relationship. Unless a partner is willing and accepting of it I feel as though one is betraying a partner. There are many views and most no one has the same exact one, there are always exceptions, things that are approved and things that aren’t. But I do agree that it does depend on how much one can tolerate.

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